RoxyNothing happened. We talked, we had a few beers.
Are you ok?
Roxy[wistfully] I just wish Trevor were home.
Yeah, that would make things easier, wouldn't it?
RoxyWhit was never marriage material. We were just friends.
A character in Army Wives
Played by Sally Pressman
Army Wives · 293 quotes
Most-quoted character in Army Wives: in 131 of its 293 quotes
Most scenes with: 2nd Lieutenant Trevor LeBlanc (49), Pamela Moran (33), Claudia Joy Holden (16)
RoxyNothing happened. We talked, we had a few beers.
Are you ok?
Roxy[wistfully] I just wish Trevor were home.
Yeah, that would make things easier, wouldn't it?
RoxyWhit was never marriage material. We were just friends.
[Claudia Joy, Denise and Pamela are discussing with Tanya about what games to play at her bridal shower]
RoxyWoah, wait a minute. I feel dumber than a bag of hammers. How do you guys know all this stuff?
You didn't play any games at your shower?
Roxy[looks at Claudia Joy in astonishment] Um, shower? We got hitched so fast that I didn't even get a new dress out of it.
Really?
RoxyYeah. Seventeen days between "What can I get for you, soldier?" and "I, Roxy, take thee, Trevor".
Wow. And I thought we were fast.
Roxy[calls out] TJ! It's on the table! [excitedly to Finn] Yay, mac and cheese!
[unimpressed] Again?
RoxyYou love mac and cheese.
That's three times this week!
Roxy[on the phone with Pamela] I just left him there asleep. I mean, like, really asleep. His body is in a totally different time zone.
Wait, so Trevor still doesn't know about Whit? Roxy! This is getting ridiculous!
RoxyWhat could I do? Just shake him from a dense sleep? "Hey morning babe. Oh, uh, Finn's dad is my contractor."
What's going on?
RoxyTrevor and I just had our worst fight ever. I think he wants a divorce.
Did he say that?
RoxyNot exactly, but he's sleeping on the couch. And he said he hasn't been happy in a long time.
I'm sorry
RoxyThat fight at the bar was not a misunderstanding. The guy that Trevor punched out was Whit
Whit, your contractor?
RoxyHe's an old friend. Actually he's more than that. He's Finn's father.
Ok. Wow. And Trevor knows that?
RoxyI needed to hire some that I could trust and that I could afford. So I called Whit. And I tried to tell Trevor but he was already so mad about the truck stop to begin with that it never got out. And now he's accusing me of lying and....and worse. I just don't know what to do.
We all make mistakes, Roxy. Believe me. Look, what I've learned is, you have to see things from your soldier's point of view. I'm not saying what you did is the same as what I did to Frank. But you hurt your husband. And you hurt your marriage and you'll have to admit that if you want to make things better. You have to honest with yourself and then you can be honest with him and hope he understands.
[Roland explains to the wives that his newly adopted son is HIV positive]
Joan and I fell in love with this little boy. We weighed the risks, the pros and the cons and this was where we came out but I know that you have to think about it for yourselves.
Roxy[smiles] What's to think about? He's your son.
RoxyI think it's really great, what you guys are doing.
Well, I just hope you all will love him as much as we do.
Roxy[smiles] Oh, I know we will.
Roxy, may I ask you a question?
RoxySure.
You already had the boys before you married Trevor. How long was it before they started calling him "Dad"?
RoxyGosh, uh... [thinking] I think Finn started almost right away. Of course, you know Finn, he's just that way. It took TJ a while longer. Kids are different. I don't really think it's something you can force.
Right. I was just wondering.
RoxyFor what it's worth I think David's a really lucky kid to have you and Roland as parents.
How's Trevor?
RoxyUm, ankle's better. Thank goodness. The Army...just when you get them home you think you can relax!
RoxyWhit says he's already finished the wiring and he says the duct work won't take more than a day tops.
[Trevor nods, Roxy is unsure of what to say]
[reassuringly] Babe, it's ok. It's all good between me and Whit. I don't want you feeling guilty every time his name comes up. Whit's a good guy. And just because he's Finn's dad doesn't mean he can't be a friend.
[walked into kitchen unnoticed] Whit's my dad??
[Later]
Roxy[hands Finn a photograph of Whit] I was saving these for you. For Sunday. This is Whit from back when I knew him before. I met Whit when I was your age and we were best friends right off. Not boyfriend-girlfriend, just very close. And we stayed that way through high school.
[looks at photo] Why didn't you get married?
RoxyBecause we didn't love each other that way. Not the way you're supposed to love someone when you get married.
Oh.
RoxyBut we were lucky enough to have you. And I was happy to raise you by myself. Until I found a person who I did love in the right way. [looks to Trevor] But Whit is a good man. And he loves you very much. He loves you so much he let Trevor adopt you so that you could have a real daddy. You understand?
[looks at Roxy] So, do I have to call Whit "Dad" now?
RoxyNo. Trevor is your dad, same as always. Whit is just a friend.
What about my father? Will I ever get to meet him?
RoxyHoney, I don't think that's gonna happen.
Why not?
RoxyBecause there were times when he wasn't so nice to me and I didn't want that happening to you. So I got away. To protect you. [TJ looks away dejectedly] I'm so sorry, but I think you're old enough to know the truth. And I would never let anyone hurt you.
So why did you marry him?
RoxyBecause I was young and I didn't know better.
People make mistakes, bud.
RoxyThat does not mean that you are a mistake. You are the only thing that brought me happiness during those years. And I have never ever regretted having you. Not for one second. You understand? [takes out a photo] I saved this for you so you could see what he looked like. You want to talk about it?
[looks at photo] May I be excused?
RoxySure.
[TJ gets up and goes out to the porch without saying a word]
[Later]
It's not fair.
I know. [pauses] Look, I told you that I was adopted like you and Finn. But what I didn't tell you was that my natural father wasn't very good to me either. He wasn't good to anybody. In fact, he's in jail. And I haven't seen him since I was Finn's age.
How come you never told me?
Because I didn't think it was important. Until now. [looks at TJ] I know how you're feeling, TJ. Angry, disappointed, embarrassed. It's hard. And that just doesn't go away. But I'll tell you what I figured out. You get two families in this life. The one you're born with and the one you choose. The one I was born with didn't measure up, but I love the family that I chose. And that means you, bud. I hope you feel the same way about me.
[smiles] I do, Dad.
[Chief is taking a photo of Roxy and Shady cutting the ribbon during the truck stop opening ceremony]
Say, formaggio!
RoxyWhat???
[annoyed] Let's cut this thing.
[At the banquet]
[to Trevor] It seems like yesterday we were here talking about Jump School. As I recall, your wife here saluted me.
Roxy[embarrassed] Yeah...I guess we've all come a long way since then.
Hey, babe. Whatcha doing?
RoxyHating life.
[...]
RoxyIt's the truck stop. I should've listened to you. It's gonna be a ghost town around here when the post closes. We're gonna lose everything.
No we're not.
RoxyYes we are!
Ok. Say we loose everything. So what? Babe, we started with nothing. And we have to do it all over again, we will.
RoxyYeah, just wait till the bank come after us.
Ok, so we'll go on the run. Like Bonnie and Clyde. [kisses Roxy]
RoxyRoxy and Trevor? Doesn't really have the same ring to it.
Well, then, how about Trevor and Roxy?
RoxyHow about more kissing, less talking?
Thank you all for sharing your lives with me.
For being a light in the dark
For having my back.
RoxyFor taking me as I am.
For making this place a home.
[raises glass for a toast] To us.
To us.
You're not worried about the storm? I just heard it's coming in tomorrow night.
RoxyHoney, if I worry about every storm that comes along I'd be as nervous as a long-tailed cat in a room full rocking chairs.
[bangs on the bathroom door] Katie, hurry up!! Come on Katie! Open up! You've been in there forever!
[from inside the bathroom] Have not!
Have too! [to Lucas] Is she always like this?
Always!
[knocks on door] Hurry up!
Roxy[angrily] Ok, TJ! Knock it off!
Katie! The boys are waiting! [knocks on door] Put it in gear!
It's not fair!
[walks past the boys] Can't find my patrol cap.
RoxyDon't look at me.
Is that like a baseball hat?
Yeah. Why?
[sheepishly] We were sort of playing with it in my room. [Trevor goes to the boys' room]
[bangs on bathroom door] Katie! The toilet flush!
[Lucas and TJ groan and grumble loudly]
[from inside the bathroom] It's not my fault!
Katie! Open the door. I'll deal with it.
But Mom...
[continues knocking on door angrily] Katie! Katie Moran!
[Trevor grabs his hat and storms out of the house, Roxy rushes after him]
RoxyTrevor! Don't be mad.
This is getting old, babe.
RoxyOk, it won't be much longer.
[sarcastically] How long? Do you realize we haven't had sex in two weeks?
RoxyWell, maybe we could get a room.
If we could get a room I'd put the Morans in it. That's the problem. There are no rooms.
RoxyOk, well, she's my best friend. And she saved Finn's life. So, just a little longer.
[Trevor looks at her and says nothing, gets on his bike and leaves for work]
2nd Lieutenant Trevor LeBlancDrew Fuller · 80 quotes
Pamela MoranBrigid Brannagh · 60 quotes
Claudia Joy HoldenKim Delaney · 43 quotes
Dr. Roland BurtonSterling K. Brown · 38 quotes
Denise SherwoodCatherine Bell · 35 quotes
Joan BurtonWendy Davis · 25 quotes
Michael HoldenBrian McNamara · 24 quotes
FFinnJohn White Jr. · 22 quotes
Frank SherwoodTerry Serpico · 22 quotes
TJConnor Christie · 16 quotes
GloriaAlyssa Diaz · 13 quotes
JJeremyRichard Bryant · 11 quotes
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