Lois, if you found out something, something someone didn't want you to know about them, would you tell them?
That depends. Is that person someone you care about?
Yeah.
And does keeping the secret hurt anyone?
No.
Then my answer is no. If I really cared about that person, I wouldn't tell them that I knew. But I would go out of my way to be supportive of them so that hopefully, one day, they would be comfortable enough to tell me themselves.





