Data and Crusher in “Unfinished Business”

Data

Doctor? I require your advice as a successful parent.

Well, thank you, Data. I'd like to think I was. Well, please sit down. How's Lal?

Data

Lal is realizing she is not the same as other children.

Is it lonely for her?

Data

She does not feel the emotion of loneliness, but she can observe how isolated she is from the others. She wishes to be more like them. I do not know how to help her. Lal is passing into sentience. It is perhaps the most difficult stage of her development.

When Wesley was growing up, he was an extraordinarily bright boy, but he had a hard time making friends. I think the other children were a little intimidated by him.

Data

That is precisely what happened to Lal in school. How did you help him?

Well, first I went back to my own childhood and remembered how painful it was for me. Because I remember a time when I wasn't very popular either. And when I told that to Wesley, it made him feel a little better. He knew I understood what he was going through.

Data

I have not told Lal how difficult it was for me to assimilate. I did not wish it to discourage her. Perhaps this was an error of judgement.

You didn't have anyone experienced to help you through sentience. She at least has you. Just help her realise that she's not alone, and be there to nurture her when she needs love and attention.

Data

I can give her attention, Doctor. But I am incapable of giving her love. (Data leaves)