Tamin and Sonny in “Unfinished Business”

Could we stop using the expression, "He said/She said"? It sounds like, "There's no evidence, and there's nothing we can do". And why is the "he" always first?

Sonny

Kat, a jury understands "no means no." They have a harder time with, "Yes, but I want you to slow down" and "Even though you didn't stop, I'll still have a nightcap with you afterwards."

Every time you say a jury is going to have a hard time, I think you mean you.